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a Contemporary Corinthian Classic

Love IS… Word Filled Wednesday by Lori MacMath

Love IS… Word Filled Wednesday by Lori MacMath

Today is Valentine’s Day, aka Cupid’s favourite day. The day our calendars remind us that it’s time to celebrate romance and love. Yes, today is the single-most-day on the calendar for the prevalence of pairs!

But what’s love got to do with this day?

LOVE is more than this date, or even having a date on Valentine’s Day  ❤  LOVE is worthy of celebration, yet can never be limited to one day per year  ❤  LOVE is true, precious, enduring and meaningful  ❤  LOVE is what Paul the Apostle wrote in I Corinthians 13.

Here now, written by Christopher (ordained minister in the Anglican Church of Canada), is a Valentine’s Day Paraphrase of the Bible’s “love” chapter. You can read more from Christopher at his “In A Spacious Place” blog.

I Corinthians 13
Valentine’s Day Paraphrase
– Love Is A Choice

For Valentine’s Day here is my paraphrase
of Paul’s I Corinthians 13 meditation on love.

If I say all the right words, filled with sentiment and romance,
but do not choose to behave in ways that demonstrate the practical
action of my love for you,
my words are empty and meaningless.

If I provide for you a lavish lifestyle and cater to your every need
but do not choose to live in relationship to you in a way that is loving,
I am not really in relationship with you at all.
My behaviour is just one more strategy to meet my own needs.
Without love, I will always treat you as an object for my personal gratification.

If I sacrifice myself for you, appearing to give up my desires in service to you,
but do this without love, no one gains anything.
My actions are merely another form of self-indulgence.

Love chooses to be patient.
This means I will stick with you even at those times
when our relationship may be painful.

Love chooses to behave in ways that are kind.
To be kind is to be generous towards you, making space for you to be the person you are,
rather than demanding you be the person I might think I would like you to be.

When I choose to love you I will not indulge my petty emotions.
I will choose to be gentle towards you and to let go of
those small irritants upon which it is so easy to focus.

We can all find them, if we look hard enough.
But, clinging to an endless litany of little complaints
will corrode the love in our relationship.

Love does not insist on winning.
It is ready to let go, to surrender,
to lay down the need to be right all the time.

I will know I have chosen love
when I am no longer determined to get my way.

Resentment and irritability are sure signs that I am walking away from love.

When I take delight in your failings and
emphasize what I perceive to be your flaws,
I have given up on love.

Love always seeks to see the truth,
even when it may be painful.

There are times when love simply puts up with things as they are.

When I choose love I commit myself to trust you
even when I feel as if your behaviour has let me down.

My love for you never gives up hoping
we will continue to grow and prosper together.

Love is the ultimate power that generates and sustains life.
It is the enduring force of the universe. It will never be defeated.

Everything else is temporary.

I know that I do not understand life fully. I understand neither myself nor you completely.
There are so many ways in which my vision is inadequate. I am so often self-deceived.

We will only prosper in this relationship of love if we determine we will
carry on together
being as honest as we possibly can with ourselves and with one another.
Anything less than this deep commitment to transparency and truthfulness is simply childish.

When I choose love,
I choose to grow up into that fullness for which I know in my deepest being, I was created.
I trust that as I stay open to love and to you, I will see more clearly and understand more accurately.
One day I will see fully how love always wins.

The greatest things in my life are my choice to trust,
my determination to look forward in hope,
and my intention to behave in ways that nurture love.

But the greatest thing of all is to choose consistently
to live more fully a practical active life of love. 

❤ ❤ ❤

Dear Christopher @ In A Spacious Place Wordpress blog,
Thank you for writing this insightful Valentine’s Day paraphrased version
of the Bible’s more traditional 1 Corinthians 13.

4 responses

  1. Amen! One of the reasons I chose this blog on ravelry to respond to is because of its reference to Scripture. So much in media does not or isn’t rooted in a belief in God, that having more in my internet contact seems a VERY GOOD thing.


    February 15, 2013 at 6:51 am

    • Wow, thank you 🙂 Hearing feedback like that means so much to me! Yes truly, God lives in my heart and the things in my heart get posted onto this blog! May God bless you abundantly, even as He has blessed me through your comments ❤


      February 15, 2013 at 4:43 pm

  2. Thanks for sharing that paraphrase of 1 Corinthians, Jackie. It’s the most insightful one that I have ever read. –Tom

    Liked by 1 person

    June 27, 2020 at 8:44 pm

    • Glad you enjoyed it, Tom 🤗 Insightful also describes your blog posts. You write with an “in the moment” perspective which always draws me into the storyline! 😇🎶✝️🙏💜 Jackie@KWH

      Liked by 1 person

      June 28, 2020 at 11:27 pm

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